PLAYER/WOMANIZER/CHEATER: The PACKAGE small, the TECHNIQUE mediocre and/or possesses a deep-seated fear of being GAY. Therefore, the need to LIE/DECEIVE, HURT/ABUSE women trying to prove to himself (and ANYONE who may be looking) that there's nothing WRONG with him and he is not the INSECURE man that he KNOWS he inevitably is. Psychiatry 101.