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JOSH CHARLES CUPP
THIS MAN SHOULD HAVE A WARNING LABEL AND THIS IS IT: This posting isn't meant to hurt anyone, it was written with the intent of saving others all of the trouble and agony that the FOUR of us went through.

In December 2005, Josh Cupp began dating Girl #1-a co-worker. In March 2006, while Josh was still seeing Girl #1, Josh became involved in another serious and apparently 'committed' relationship with Girl #2, whom he met on myspace. In June 2006, Josh began dating his third girlfriend, who he also met on myspace. In September 2006, he began his FOURTH simultaneous relationship with another woman he also worked with. All girls were led to believe they were the only woman in his life and that he was not dating, seeing or sleeping with anyone else. He's actually the one that asked each girl to enter into a committed relationship ("because he couldn't bear to see them going out with anyone else"). In November 2006, Girl #1 and Girl #3 figured out what was going on and let Girl #2 know what was happening. The fourth girl found out shortly afterwards. All four of us dumped him as soon as we found out. All of the girls got together and started comparing notes and then wrote this profile immediately after uncovering all of the following information.

These weren't flings or casual sex partners. This man was sick. He asked all FOUR women to be his girlfriend. This vile being introduced all FOUR of us to his brother and his brother's fiancé during the weekend they flew out to San Francisco and got engaged. He told all FOUR of us that he wanted to buy a house and move in together. Needless to say all of us were hurt and heartbroken. None of us suspected anything at all and we were completely blindsided by the news. We are all so glad that the other women were courageous enough to tell each other so we can each move on from this mentally unhealthy person and find the great guy we deserve. Josh will never change. He's great with words and when you first meet him he comes across as the sweet, hot and semi-dorky/socially challenged type. He comes around and opens the car door for you every time you drive somewhere. He's not a big drinker or into going out, so you think that you may have hit the motherload- a guy who is everything you ever wanted and not into the party scene. But the truth of the matter is that this guy doesn't go out and hang out with his guy friends because he's spending all of his spare time with other women. (When he does this, he'll actually tell you that he's playing in a volleyball league or going on a 'recruiting trip' since he's the coach of the women's golf team at the University of San Francisco- he tells you lies like this because they seem so innocent that you'll actually believe them. I mean, he's not using the typical excuses and saying he's going out drinking with the guys or watching the football game at a friend's house so why would you suspect anything?) he actually lied to girl #3 and said he couldn't spend thanksgiving with her because his parents bought him a last minute flight home...but he actually spent it with girl #1 & 2. And the worst part is he was going home to meet girl #2's parents for christmas and then going to meet girl #3's parents the day after! Total scum. We are just so glad we never introduced him to our family.

We won't tell you not to date him, because truth be told you probably will. He's good-looking and charming and says all the right things to make you feel as though he's way more into you than you are into him (he was the one who asked us to be his girlfriend, he was the one who wanted us to meet his parents, and the list goes on-). We do want you to be warned and to protect yourself though.

Josh Cupp is not practicing safe sex. Besides the FOUR girlfriends, we also know of FIVE other women who slept with him over the summer and were apparently just flings and he wasn't using protection with them. We're sure there are even more women that he's slept with, but at this point, the numbers are so crazy that we would prefer not to find out about anymore (it makes us sick to our stomaches).

Watch out for all of his signs (his phone is ALWAYS on silent. he always takes his phone when he leaves the room (to call one of the many girls) and when a woman calls he will tell you it's one of the girls on the team or his mom. when he inexplicably backs out of a date with you it will be because 'something at work popped up' or his 'parents bought him a last minute flight home').

*PLEASE be careful if you're considering dating this guy.* If you have been tricked into dating this man as well, please feel free to leave your comments below and help other girls understand how dangerous and disgusting this guy really is. This site is awesome and we wish more women knew about it so girls could know ahead of time what they were getting themselves into. Had any of us known what was going on, we would've never touched him, more or less been his 'girlfriends.' We're just glad we found out, because if the other girls hadn't told us we'd still be in the dark and have no clue that he was cheating on any of us. This guy has some serious hang ups with his dad cheating on his mom and thinks it gives him the right to cheat as well. Don't trust him and please don't get hurt by this guy. He's an expert cheater and a horrible person.
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15 November, 2008 - 16:21
Gotta love this site. Hopefully more sociopaths will be exposed. In a way I feel sorry for them (don't confuse that statement for a reason to date any of them, NO WAY) could you imagine being this guy with his head so messed up. Mentally healthy men are hard to find. His family is equally to blame for his dysfunction. If they called him on his s@*t long ago he wouldn't be this bad. How can you meet woman after woman and still continue to condone such behavior. If they had any morals, they would write him off until he can get help.
24 September, 2008 - 13:47
Cut off his balls and wear them as little dangle earrings.
17 June, 2008 - 23:34
I am girl #5. I can back up everything that's been said about Josh in this post. He is a pathological liar and I don't see him changing any time soon. I know that this is damaging to him, but the thought of him deceiving and hurting another woman is worse to me. I always suspected he was cheating on me and now I have the proof. Whoever wrote this post, I congratulate you for being honest and for warning everyone out there about him. I wish I would have seen this two years ago!!! In fact, if the four of you and anyone else who was cheated by Josh is still in the Bay Area, I'd love to buy you a drink. I just know that we are all amazing women who have grown from this experience and deserve so much better, and I'd love to meet you and tell you my story if you want to hear it, but I prefer not to spend another breath on him. I'm just relieved that in a world where the first thing we do when we meet someone is google them, everyone will now get the truth about Josh right there on the front page.
10 June, 2008 - 01:03
I am one of the girls who fell for him. I had the chance to meet his family and he met mine. Although, I must say, that from the get go, I knew what I was getting myself into. I think what the kicker is, is that he has a 14 year old child, and he won't admit that he has a child...When will this guy learn.
07 June, 2008 - 23:46
I won't be taking up golf any time soon!!!
05 June, 2008 - 09:51
i think i met this guy, recently he is charming, hot body too!
05 June, 2008 - 09:48
i will give him credit for being attractive, i feel for the trap of josh, and wanted to sleep with him, and now my husband knows, my bad! it was and ok romp at that
01 June, 2008 - 20:29
...and narcissistic for calling himself cute!
22 May, 2008 - 11:27
He's cute
01 April, 2008 - 01:20
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