Bernard Jones "PhillyVegan"
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Cheated on every partner he has ever had, even after promising to be committed to only them. Uses women, lies, dates multiple women at the same time, carries on multiple affairs while in a supposedly monogamous relationship, and has given multiple partners STDs.
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07 September, 2008 - 13:47
I've noticed that all of the men outed on this list sing the same pathetic song...I've changed. Then they begin the blame game by calling the ones that they've abused immature. It's always the same. They can't stand to see someone shine the light on their flaws. Interesting yes, but pathetic. All I can say is that I hope that after reading through this site that women learn what to look for -- how to spot a dirtbag, cheating, user like this guy.
07 June, 2008 - 22:17
If someone gave me an STD, I'd haul them into civil court.
15 May, 2008 - 03:33
Well, he sounds like a winner!!!!!!!!!!! Too funny!
30 March, 2008 - 22:59
A few weeks ago Bernard told a person (in writing) that he is going to stop dating / seeing people in order to work on his own issues which cause him to have unhealthy relationships and needs. He finally seems like he wants to become a better person that is capable of treating others with respect. I really hope that he is being sincere about this as it is a huge step towards him in trying to stop the damage that he inflicts to others as well as his own-self.
So please- if anyone hears anything about him dating, seeing, making out, or sleeping with anyone from this time forward, or in the past three weeks, let this site know. This will prove if he really is starting to become a grown up man or if he is just a liar as his past track record has proven so far. He claims to really only want one specific girl and is willing to show some patience to try and get her back. Some of us think his announcement of celibacy it is just a ploy (while he is really sleeping with others) so he can get between her legs again but hopefully he is being sincere this time. However, if this is just another one of his lies, PLEASE LET THIS SITE KNOW IMMEDIATELY.
He is trying to probe and find out who has been giving information to the site, but please feel safe in knowing that this site is anonymous and some of us have not, and will not, admit our postings to him.
24 February, 2008 - 01:32
'If multitudes come my way, I am busy.' What are you even talking about; it sounds as if you are grasping at straws. You are the one that suggested that I approach meeting someone with that line. So, now you are changing your story and agreeing it would be offensive as I just pointed out. As I said, I have discussed my status PRIOR to romantic involvement with the people I've dated and answered their questions honestly.
And further more, how can you feel you have the right to be posting on this site or even claim to know me or my MO when we obviously have never met based on what you've just stated. I have NEVER met anyone that has volunteered they were the primary in a poly relationship. If we have met then it was YOU and not ME that was hiding things. And, therefore, why are you even posting on this site and/or getting involved when we've never even gone out. Perhaps you should either focus more on your now monogamous relationship and mind your own business or tell whom ever you are posting for to do it themselves instead of hiding behind someone else. You are only making yourself and those you represent look less credible. Bernard Jones
24 February, 2008 - 00:52
You keep yourself busy yes so that nothing is revealed bernard. THIS way if multitudes come your way you are busy. THAT is what we've noticed but I will only speak for myself.
As far as the pick up line, it is not a pick up line that I meant, but something to be discussed prior to involvement, which is not the consensus here. Those exact words, yes, would be offensive, I agree. However something along those lines, when communicating and getting to know each other is the way I have communicated. Yes I say I because I have practiced the poly and swinger lifestyle and this is important. Though now I am monogamous this was not my long term goal, as I had a primary and was not out shopping.
24 February, 2008 - 00:37
Clearly mystery poster, you have not been to any veg-socials. Otherwise you'd know that since I run the party almost entirely myself I don't even have enough time to maintain the party and clean-up after people, let alone go around hitting on women all night. ANYONE that has been to a Philly veg-social party knows this to be the case and can verify this. Perhaps you should admit your identity if you expect your accusations to hold any weight next time.
And not only would your suggested 'pick-up line' be considered too forward and impolite by most people, but it probably be viewed as offensive if that were said when two people are meeting for the first time. I suppose I should start off by ask them when their last STD test was as well. I've made it clear to anyone that I've dated since Lauren and I broke up that I am actively dating other people and that I am not looking to be in an exclusive relationship. Bernard Jones
23 February, 2008 - 22:13
Hint Bernard: I've been to your "vag socials" (Kudos to the one who called it that... Crack me the *** up) and I've seen the way you work it. And I have also seen your very non up front way of hitting on women. You do not "I'm interested in you however you need to know I am seeing other women whom I am sexually intimate with on a casual basis and this is the number of partners I have." while you let them make their own choice. THIS is the open up front approach any person with nothing to hide takes. You, my friend, need to understand that if you were truly upfront there would be no concern as to why girls would be so upset with you.
23 February, 2008 - 01:55
I've decided to actually post a comment on this site again in response to the recent new activity on my profile. First, let me respond to the main profile description again. I have documented blood test results that show I do not have, nor have I ever had, any STD's, and will be happy to send them to anyone that would like a copy as proof. That in and of it self should shed some light on the credibility of the individuals that created this post about me. And yes, I am Bernard Jones, not some mysterious anonymous poster that is both too afraid to admit who he or she is and prefers to make multiple posts posing at more than one person.
Second, let me say that I never cheated on my first 3 girlfriends, each of whom I dated for between 6 months and 3 and half years. I would be happy to provide their contact info to anyone that wants proof. That is the second lie in my profile description that I can prove wrong. These two statements alone should require DDHG to remove this post for violation of the websites Terms of Use, which I encourage everyone that uses this site to read. Yet, despite repeated attempts, I have yet to receive a response from the administrators of this site.
23 February, 2008 - 01:53
Next, this profile was created during the summer of 2007 by my ex girlfriend Lauren Seif, whom I broke up with for the FINAL time in April of 2007. Since the time this profile was created, it has been continually updated by Lauren and/or a few individuals, mainly her friends, including her boyfriend Patrick.
Most, but admittedly not all, of the statements she has made in this profile are not only lies, but also hypocritical as well, because she cheated on me during the middle of our relationship multiple times and is actually the one that put ME at risk of STD's. While I did cheat on her once during the first month of our 1 and half year relationship, I never actually had intercourse with anyone else. This can be verified by anyone that knows both of us.
Yes, I did regrettably cheat on 3 of my past ex girlfriends, but I admitted being unfaithful to each of them after it occurred and they each CHOSE to continue a monogamous relationship with me for another 1-2 years, during which time I was faithful. Again, this is all verifiable.
