Next, this profile was created during the summer of 2007 by my ex girlfriend Lauren Seif, whom I broke up with for the FINAL time in April of 2007. Since the time this profile was created, it has been continually updated by Lauren and/or a few individuals, mainly her friends, including her boyfriend Patrick. Most, but admittedly not all, of the statements she has made in this profile are not only lies, but also hypocritical as well, because she cheated on me during the middle of our relationship multiple times and is actually the one that put ME at risk of STD's. While I did cheat on her once during the first month of our 1 and half year relationship, I never actually had intercourse with anyone else. This can be verified by anyone that knows both of us. Yes, I did regrettably cheat on 3 of my past ex girlfriends, but I admitted being unfaithful to each of them after it occurred and they each CHOSE to continue a monogamous relationship with me for another 1-2 years, during which time I was faithful. Again, this is all verifiable.

oh and to reference to on a date and fucking her, that is not me making things up... we've compared notes with dates, times, etc. Yeah Bernard your secret is no longer a secret and your lies are being reveled.

I think he doesn't like rubbers because he is afraid of them falling off and having to be embarrassed of his little um, thing he has down there.

awww Bernard must have rated his own page. Went from a ten to a 1. Poor slime.

Well, it looks like things are finally catching up with this player ONCE AGAIN. First off, I will say that Bernard is a nice person- AS LONG as you don't get involved with him romantically. And still he is nice but only to a point. He is extremely inconsiderate which seems confusing (to all his girls and himself) because he is constantly doing things that he views as being nice- as long as he can get everything to go his way. He pushes and pushes boundaries after the boundaries have long been set. An example would be if you are tired and just don't want to stay the night or have him stay the night, he will hound and hound until you give in. He is considerate about food and being hospitable, but not of your feelings. What he doesn't understand is that his selfishness behavior starts to destroy bonds that have been formed because he invades one's own personal space , right to say "no", and to BE LEFT ALONE. He is so considerate to the point that he is controlling and won't allow someone to do things for himself. He thinks that he can do no wrong and he hates to think he has destructive or negative traits, but he does. He doesn't want to be viewed as the "bad guy" and somehow has convinced himself that he has nothing to do with breaking the hearts of the tons of girls that he has been with. He claims to be open and honest but his deceit has been cross referenced and his stories of what he has told girls which he has made "probable plans" on the same night are very inconsistent. He likes to keep plans vague enough so he can change them if a better date comes along. He thinks he can figure out who all the girls that know about this site are, but people have talked enough that he has no clue how widespread known his actions are. At the "Vag Socials", oops- I mean "Veg Socials", him and his pal Vic's behavior is known far and wide (You can let Vic know he isn't getting away either!). He has even admitted to a girl he has dated that she was a conquest. He thinks that having unprotected sex is ok as long as he is having protected sex with one of the persons he is having sex with. Even if he is having sex with several people during the same period. The sad thing is that he will see this post and instead of trying to figure out how to better or improve himself, he will just become defensive and paranoid that everyone is out to get him. But that is just another example of his selfishness. He thinks he is being open and honest but then says that it is no ones business what he is doing with other people. DDHG seems like it is about to light up once again. Its our job to warn the girls that Bernard isn't everything that he appears to be. Bernard- don't get mad. You have brought this upon yourself and this is your chance to really try and work on your issues, not just give lip service that you are.