PLAYER/WOMANIZER/CHEATER: The package SMALL, the technique MEDIOCRE and/or possesses a deep-seated fear of being GAY. Therefore, the need to LIE/DECEIVE, HURT/ABUSE women trying to reassure/convince himself (and ANYONE who may be looking) that there's nothing WRONG with him and he is not the INSECURE man that he KNOWS he inevitably is. Psychiatry 101.