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11 February, 2010 - 21:29
Hey Hon:
Here's an opinion from someone who deals in relationships. If you truly want to get over him and have a life of your own, you need to cut all ties with him. These feelings are coming back because you maintain a connection. Bottom line, cut ties. If he calls--don't answer the phone. If he emails or texts--don't write back. If he shows up at your location--walk away or don't answer the door.
01 February, 2010 - 15:10
I've been in almost the exact same situation as you... minus the Africa part... and believe me, if he thinks relationships are a "hassle" it just means that he'd rather go out and bang a bunch of other women. There's nothing wrong with you, everyone gets a little jealous, but trust me, if he were worth your time he'd be a good person ALL THE TIME, not just via text and once in a blue moon. Stay away girl!
28 December, 2009 - 21:10
Run RUn Fast...when you see him with other girls, thank God it is not you, jealousy will fade and pity for the one who snags him will engulf your heart..keep your head up and face what is inside of you and don't settle for something less then you deserve...you deserve to be showered with gifts and treated like the princess you are. Could you imagine the holidays with him, feeling neglected and not worthy, your self esteem will get so low you wouldn't be able to look at your self in the mirror..don't do it to you, love yourself more than that..Love and Blessings to you...
24 November, 2009 - 01:10
love feels great. and I am sure you do love him. However, he is not worthy of the time you have to share. Hold up your head, paint on a smile even if its fake and put one foot in front of the other while you march on with your life. He's made his choice now gather your dignity and march on. Life is far to short to waste it on the like of him. Alone and dignity intact is far better then groveling for scraps of attention. I know I've tried both.
04 November, 2009 - 16:08
Dear 70+ active widow, RUN away from this man. He sounds like a liar.
01 November, 2009 - 09:21
love feels great. and I am sure you do love him. However, he is not worthy of the time you have to share. Hold up your head, paint on a smile even if its fake and put one foot in front of the other while you march on with your life. He's made his choice now gather your dignity and march on. Life is far to short to waste it on the like of him. Alone and dignity intact is far better then groveling for scraps of attention. I know I've tried both.
29 October, 2009 - 22:53
Dear 70+ active widow, I know you do not want to hear this but to an outsider reading your letter it is clear your guy has met someone else. He just does not know how to tell you, and would like to use the escape of "morally wrong premarital sex". He was able to do that all this time before, and now there is a problem. I also will caution you that since viagra has come on the market stds in your age group have significantly increased, so please be careful out there. Please leave him alone. Good luck
27 October, 2009 - 21:27
I am 49, and also a widow. I can relate to the "convictions" but if he wants a relationship with you and no longer wants to play, you can meet for dinner, attend church together, do anything that does not "tempt" him. Ask to meet him in public for coffee, and watch his body language.If he no longer wants to play, then he can make a commitment with a prenup. I lately have discussed this with an older (88) year old gentleman and we both agree, we do not want what someone else has, so it should be no problem signing something saying so. See him in person.
24 July, 2009 - 01:18
Please be advised here he is again and is continuing to post adds in almost every dating site. I have also warned and posted to twitter.
There is a $2000 reward leading for information that leads to the arrest and conviction of Jesse Flash Rodriguez or Jesse Levi Johnson IV. He drives a Vehicle make: Mercury Mountaineer Premier LIC
22 May, 2009 - 02:32
I do not disagree with you that this guy is obviously a a
