I've been with a guy for 3 and a half yrs. He has been married twice before. We got engaged after a year and should have got married in 2006 but ten weeks before the wedding he claimed I had changed and called it off. He has proposed a number of times since but I don't know if I would go there again! He is a perpetual liar. We have split up about 4/5 times and each time he advertises himself in the local personal columns as soon as he can. After he cancelled the wedding he appeared in print after just 4 days! Everyone wonders why I keep going back (I wonder that myself!) We recently had another set back. Again he advertised himself and I found out that he told all the women he chatted to that his last relationship ended 5 years ago!! Having got back together last week, he's now keeping it a secret from his family/firends. He had an operation yesterday but because his sister is looking after him he is not keen for me to visit. How do I enter the rat on the system!!!!