After reading many of the stories on here, I think that a lot of women know what is best for them, but they don't want to do it, because they are afraid to be alone. You don't need a man to make you feel like a complete, whole person. I think we as women are lucky to have this thing called intuition, and I thank God that I've listened to it. My intuition told me that my man was cheating on me, so I did a little sneaking around, and you betcha, he was pursuing another woman. Stupid me at the time forgave him, went back together for a little, then I knew that I just wasn't happy. Women- you need to do what makes YOU happy-you have to be selfish and put yourself first! Make a life for yourself, don't depend on a man to do that. If he left you or cheated on you- he didn't deserve you in the first place, and you're better off without him! Theres a man out there that is going to treat you the way you want to be treated. You deserve to be in a happy loving relationship with mutual respect...and don't accept anything less than that!