What's On Your Mind?
I have a bit of a problem. I like these two guys who I work with, I'll use fake names for them. One is Jason, the other is Greg. Jason is sweet as he can be. When I say sweet I mean his the type of guy you can easily that advantage of (all though I would never do that in a million years because I believe way to much in karma). The down side of Jason is that he does not have a stable life. He does not have a car or barely a place to live, but his just to sweet for me to let him down and truthfully I don't know how to. Now the other guy, Greg, has a very stable life, but his fourteen years older than me. His very nice also. I like him a lot. The only thing about him that I am worried about is whether or not his just looking for sex from me. If I decide to go with Greg I am afraid that I am going to get hurt, I know Jason will get hurt if I decide to go with Greg. If I go with Jason I know that life will not be easy, and I don't want to end up having to support him. My mind is more focused on Greg than it is on Jason. Even when I am with Jason it's still on Greg. I don't know if I should try to forget about Greg and try my best to get him off my mind or should I go for him and hurt a sweet guy. So please someone help me out. Help me decide. I've talked to everyone I know and no one yet has been able to help me.
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14 November, 2008 - 13:07
i agree.. sweetness does not take you far in life. It's only one of the factors we look in men. From what you said.. Greg is also sweet and nice too and has a better stable life. The fact you think about Greg more is a sign that you want him more! so follow your heart.. and the whole sex thing.. go out with Greg for a while and you will be able to see what his real intentions are. If Greg really likes you.. he won't get offended if you wont' give him some *** .. Hope everything works out.
15 September, 2008 - 21:52
Okay sister... Jason who has nothing to offer you but his sweetness needs to be sweet because that is all he has. He needs you for everything including boosting his self esteem. I have dated "Jasons" before and in the end I realized I was a sugar mama and that is why he was sooo sweet on me. Love a man who does not need you but wants you and be willing to give him the same. As far as Greg goes... all guys are always lookign for sex in all girls.. the fact you are with Jason and thinking about Greg is a hint that you are really not that in to Jason but you like that he is in to you. The Jason I knew lived in his mom's shack and owed child support... lived on a trucker's income and was sweet as can be as long as he di not drink and I was paying for everything... when he began to make more income he turned very nasty. Bums are very sweet when they are pan handling but then when they are detoxing and have nothing to fix the pain they are capable of horrible deeds. I know i am going on a tangent but my whole point is anyone who is desperate will act nice. I hope this helps.