What's On Your Mind?
I have been dating a guy that was separated for two years. We have been together a little over a year now. We just purchased a home together and have looked at rings and talked about our marriage. Now all of a sudden, I have looked at cell phone records and see that he has been talking to a female on some pretty long calls. He says he hasn't done anything with the female but just talk to her. Now the female is a person that he has slept with and she is very MARRIED. I spoke with the female and she was real ugly in telling me I was nothing to him and that she did not care what we had going, she was going to stay around. He is pretty much refusing to stop talking to this female. For some outlandish reason, he doesnt think that he should have to. I have threatend to leave and even packed a bag. He says he wants me to stay. His mom has expressed to me that this female is a slut and she is not welcome in her home. His mom also told me that if I leave she does not blame me but if I decide to come back home. I better not make it so easy. She advised me to put the B**** in her place as well. I love him and there are children involved. I sit here at work, and as my lunch approaches, I am going to go home and get me some clothes. I've already called my sister and told her That I would be over.......
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01 November, 2009 - 09:25
my husband though it was acceptable to keep talking to the woman he had an affair with. Move out and stop all communication for awhile. Let him choose who he will give up speaking to forever. You or her. Or maybe just move on and find someone with a more accurate moral compass.
30 October, 2009 - 14:44
Run for your life!
15 October, 2009 - 20:21
Girl, I hate to say this but jump ship. I was with a guy who is a wanna be politician and lives in a tea cup. Has nothing but thinks he the ultimate lover. If he's cheating it's not gonna stop and with the rate that AIDS/HIV is spreading don't take the chance. Men don't care who they suck or yuck and then want to stick there tongue in your mouth. How many butts have you kissed just kissing him. It's hard but we have to take a stand me or I move on.
15 October, 2009 - 12:05
I was once in the same situation. He would go online talk to her, then it moved to texting, to caling and I tried sticking it out...would throw in a threat but could never get myself to leave because our child was involved. However, it got to a point where I couldn't take it or brush it aside anymore. I packed a bag, called my cousin and told him that he has to decided if he wants me or her. He was stumbling for words so I walked out and left for two months. I would only get in touch with him in regrads to our son Jacob, other then that I would avoid him. The two months went by and he said he was sorry that he needed me. I loved him so much I explained to him that what he did was hurtful, and I couldn't not go on with him talking and seeing another girl. Leaving changed his ways and he stopped talking to her. I think some time a way will do you some good.
12 October, 2009 - 16:17
If he really loved you he would stop talking to this female. Take the mother advice put the b....in her place.Then wait and see what happen,if he keep calling her then time to leave.Because it will never stop and that call disrepecting you. I know it hard when love someone so much. At the end I was paying for dinners and my ex would go home and call a dancer up. I been told she is a slut.Good Luck.