I have been dating this man off and on for 2 1/2 years. I have been through alot with him and still somehow I never learn my lesson. I guess I should blame myself. But he is such a charmer and the chemistry has always been there I find myself forgiving him everytime. He has an ex wife whom he is still very close with. 2 christmas's in a row he dumped me right before the holiday and had his ex wife of 8 yrs and her daughter join him at his families functions. I would beg him to tell me if she and he were still intimate and he would always say no. I found out a few months ago that they had indeed been having sex during the times we were "supposedly" on a break. Fr I was diagnosed with *** almost a yr ago. I had only been with one partner before this guy and my first partner is negative. This guy I am talking about has ***. I definitely got it from him. His ex wife now knows and he says she now wont touch him with a 10 ft pole, but I just can't trust him and I have no idea if this is true. She still text messages him too all the time. Then the other day I see a text he and his friend are looking at and because I am always suspicious of him I have microscope eyes and I saw a text that said " luv u, nitey nite". My heart dropped and I felt nauseous. I asked to speak with him and he tried to say his friend uses his phone to text .. get this... a stripper named Madison!!! But when I begged him to let me read the text it didn't say his friends name it said his name!! :(. Since it's an iphone I scrolled up real quick before he took the phone away and I saw these texts go on for quite awhile. I had to fly home since we were away in Chicago and he just let me walk away trying to tell me I was the crazy and immature one... BY THE WAY this man is 42!!!!!!!!! He corresponds with strippers, he still screws his ex wife, he gave me *** and he can't be faithful nor commital. I would love to scream at the top of my lungs to every kind and decent woman in the world to never date or sleep with this man. I would never wish for my worst enemy to be conived into being with this man because he is such a charmer. He could get into most girls pants and then make you feel like you are the wrong one. I am sorry I ever got involved and now I just cant seem to get out. Hopeless.