I met a guy on a dating site just on 5 years ago he said at that time he was chatting with a amother women but after he met her he was so disappointed as she was so obese she could hardly walk by herself. He told me he sent her an e mail and called the whole thing off and no more was said about her. That was until February last year when this woman came out from America to live with im (I am Australian) he told me for past 15 months that he was getting rid of her and always came up with some excuse why she had not gone back home. I was in hospital just recently and when i came home he foned me and was chatting away then he hit me with "Oh I went into a sham marriage with her" her visa was about to expire and she wanted to stay in Australia and it she stayed here illegally she would not be able to return for another 3 years. He tells me he has no feelings for her and they are not sleeping to gether and that he is now trying to get her out of his house. I now realise that for the past 5 years he has done nothing but lie to me I have loaned him money (more the fool me) and now he is living off her as he is too lazy to work. I just feel as tho I want to hurt him as much as he has hurt me and this is taking up all my energy as I just have this hate for him. He is a woman user and a coward....I have since found out that this is his 5th marriage. Why do men do this to woman...why cant they ever tell the truth/