What's On Your Mind?
I was seeing someone who didn't want me to meet his family. His divorce is public record. This went on for six months. I've never met his family.
I only saw him about once a month. He always wanted to text. He never have me one card, not for my birthday or valentines day. He always said he was with his family.
He always met me in his private place but his "friends came over". When they were coming I had to leave.
There are other bad things that happened and I think it is over. He makes me feel used.
Feedback please. I just want to know if others have had this happen and did they find out the truth behind it.
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03 July, 2009 - 12:40
Red Flags: Meets you in secret places, doesn't tell his friends or family about you, can only meet you once a week or something irregular like that, can't call after certain hours, doesn't give you cards or gifts, pays everything in cash or has you pay. The list goes on. Live and learn. They will say anything to you to get you in bed or feed their ego.
02 July, 2009 - 19:14
to all the girls on here this is a great quote i recently heard..."that which does not kill you only makes you stronger..."
29 June, 2009 - 08:19
Yep, this happened to me too when I met a guy on-line who said he had been separated for three years. I got suspicious of the way he was treating me and some of the stories he told me so I did some digging. I found out the he was married and was seeing someone else besides me so I kicked him to the curb. I suggest you do the same as not introducing you to his family and friends and you not being able to visit him at his proper home are major red flags. Move on, girl!
25 June, 2009 - 19:57
well the boys is off from the get go i had it happen to me but i wised up from it and found a better man out of the experinence just hang in there all will be fine