speaking from experience, seriously, don't putt all your eggs in one basket hoping this guy isn't like the others with baby mama drama. i know this is harsh but be thankful that you miscarried. the same exact thing happened to me except they were married and supposidly going through a divorce because they fight and argue all the time. i miscarried and was sad but in the end knew that it was for the best. all your going to do is worry what he is doing while he is in new york away from you. besides what father would leave his child there in new york. don't you want a man who is passionate about his family and would be there for your child. he isn't there for her child and he wouldn't have been there for yours. don't settle for less, you don't deserve that

i know i just wrote you, the more i read this the more you sound like the girl my cousin was telling me about. to let you know if it is you not to sound rude, but im going to tell you the same thing i tokd her leave him alone because not only is he messing with the both of you but there is probably others you all don't know about. just think about it yall two shouldn't be mad at each other because he is the bad guy not the two of you.

im kind of confuse here. you stated that he told you that they broke up when she became pregnant. but you also stated they where living together now that the baby is here. that in itself should tell you that he is playing the both of you all. do you travel to new york frequently to visit him or does he just come down to florida. if that the case him just coming to florida then him and his baby mama is still hooking up. be strong and move on because she is always going to be in the picture whether you like it or not. if this isn't his only child then let it go.