This story sounds so familiar, the men of today are such a sad example of what we should really call a man, especially where I am from. It appears they like needy, screwed up, ex-druggies or current, recovering alcholics, people they have to baby sit and he prefers to find them at churches since he likes to claim he's a christian, but then again that should tell you something about the man also. If you would want to be with a woman like that it says so little about you. They can also control these types of women so it appears attractive to them. Sad but true, cheating and getting notches on their belt becomes a sad way of life for them, poor pathetic souls that they are. They do not want good women, they are too independent, responsible, HONEST and good and quite honestly my ex is with one of those woman and I could not be happier because he so deserves no one better than that.

nolonger in style. cheating and getting knotches on the bedposts is whats in. Love has flew the coop.everything is about using one another to get money.spreading STDS. its so pathetic. well I agree with this my ex thought e was trading up and now he finding out cheating just wasn't worth it. She got him already going down the hill she got him going into debt. She wants him to play her bills and buy her stuff. But like you said it not love anymore cheatingand making another mark on the bed it is in. No longer you have a good woman