What's On Your Mind?
Oh girls, I feel so sorry for some of us that have put up with SUCH bullshit! ~ Irecently had an affair with a married man for the first time in my life (I'm 36). I ended it after a month because I felt like such an IDIOT. He called me 20 times a day, sent the sweetest text messages (like 50 a DAY!), and saw me every day for that whole month...fooled around, but didn't bang him (thank GOD)....Come to find out I hear through the grapevine he cheats on his wife all the time! Never in my life have I even looked at a man with even a girlfriend! I always thought to myself: I never would do it, because I NEVER want it to happen to me. I feel so sorry for his wife, who sadly, looks the other way.Smart/ Pretty girl too. I'm glad I had the balls to say, 'Sorry dude, but I can't do this'. It was so hard, because he truely is such a ladies man. But with lectures/help from my girlfriends and hearing some of their stories and reading things here, the anxiety about sneaking around and the saddness that I had has subsided significantly....Time does make it go away! Amen!
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28 September, 2009 - 01:08
Not to be rude you should have run when he started calling and texting so much. I know men who are very much in love with their girlfriends or wifes and don't stalk them like that. I will commend you on getting him out of your life. Being a woman whose husband cheated on her, I know how his wife feels. He was a cheater when she married him and he will always be a cheater. Thank god I got rid of mine. Married men that cheat are worthless.
26 September, 2009 - 19:53
That much calling and texting would have been really annoying to me. Read, "Needy". I'd have run away then!
25 September, 2009 - 12:27
first of all u wouldn't be dealing with bulls*** if you wouldn't be messing around with a married man