I did the same thing...I had my own place but in order to stay together I sold mine and moved into his. I have nothing either but when I leave I will have the pride to hold my head up high! Get going, you will bounce back!

I think in cicumstances such as yours and from my own experiences we should be so thankful that we are not involved with these people any more. We can be incredibly intelligent and wary of men but there are just some men that are such good liars and almost sociopaths that we believe them and fall for them and change our lives to be with them. I don't think there is anything worse than being used up by a man only to be coldy rejected without any remorse or guilt or understanding or honesty on their part. I think that next time round for me I will be incredibly vigilant and very wary and take my time and if he is really interested in me he will do things for me to show me. From having to start over with nothing is so very difficult but as time goes on you can be incredibly proud of your strength and resourcefulness in building everything again. I have done it and even though it was not easy, I am very proud of my achievements to date. I wish you all the best.