What's On Your Mind?
So please tell me if I am wrong. My boyfriend of a little over a year was on facebook talking to girls. I asked to use his computer, which he gave me permission to do so and when I went to check my facebook he had not logged out of his and his page popped up. There was a runing message between him and a girl form his past. This womna is married wiht a child and she contacted him to tell him she was not into her husband anymore and wanted him ect.....Well as i read on My bf asked for some pics of her getting friendly with her "new firend" since she is no longer having sex with her man. I feel that if he is getting pictures of women naked or in sexual acts with toys or other people that is as bad a cheating. I can handle the playboy magazines but not the people he knows and has access to if he went back home. Am I wrong for feeling this way...should I look at this as he is not cheating and he did nothing wrong....HELP!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!
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16 August, 2008 - 00:42
Cheating is cheating....emotionally or physically. You need to get out of that realtionship and move on.
26 July, 2008 - 02:23
Loose him now. I ended up married to a man that liked his playboys more than me. The magazines escalated into internet porn, chat rooms and adult dating sites. He was meeting up with people everywhere he traveled. He was blaming our teenage sons for the porn on the computer and denying affairs. Even when I had emails and other proof. I finally left him after more than twenty years of marriage, the lies and neglect just became unbearable. He lives in his own fantasy land. If he wont get help get out.
25 July, 2008 - 23:03
You are not wrong! Trust your intuition. If he is cheating online he will cheat physically sooner or later. Trust me, I learned from experience. I let my b/f convince me talking dirty online isn't a bad thing and he would stop. He didn't. Next think I knew he was looking up women within 10 miles of our house to hook up with. Forget that guy. Move on and be happy! :)
24 July, 2008 - 17:35
I had this problem with an "EX" of mine. i found out the exact sameway though.. except it was throught myspace. he had been talking to an ex girlfriend of his and she had been sending him pictures of herself naked for the past 3 months. ever week there would be a new one. if ur dude has something like that to hide from you, hes def not worth being with..seriously. i found that out the hard way. i wish you the best!