JOHN SOTO

This Colombian man is EXTREMELY manipulative and at first, is very well-liked because he is very handsome, has boyish-charm, is very talkative (accent), and funny. He claims to not want "drama" when he is the one who causes it. John has Borderline Personality Disorder, but blames women in his past (or current women) for his problems (all of his exes are "crazy ***es" according to him, and he was the one who was so "generous" and "tried", but it was all their fault, you know!), as is typical for those with Borderline Personality Disorder. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THIS MAN! He will use women for every possible thing he can including, but not limited to: sex, transportation, food/cooking, cleaning, someone to take care of his various personal affairs and errands, and MONEY. Mainly, John is addicted to seduction and attention. He needs someone for "supply" due to his BPD. I had the misfortune of giving John the benefit of the doubt over the years, and trying to deal with and help him with his Borderline Personality Disorder. He continued to have online and telephone relationships with various women (all over the WORLD, I should add) and eventually, I discovered he was dating someone locally. I am quite sure he cheated on me previously, but I have no solid proof of it. In the end, I threw him out after discovering he had things going on with various women, and he left owing me approximately $7,000.00. I had loaned him sums of money over the years, he ran up my phone bill almost $1,000 with calls to Colombia, he gave away many of my belongings promising to replace them, but didn't, and AFTER I broke up with him, his cellphone company charged MY debit card to pay HIS bill, and I ended up incurring over $1,000 in various bank and creditor fees. He has made NO attempt whatsoever to pay me back. He was "hiding" at the homes of his family members in Newark, New Jersey for a period of time, but last I knew, he was living in Austell, Georgia. He has been out of work with Delta Air Lines due to a back injury, and has been receiving disability and/or workers compensation. He WAS going to have back surgery in January, and I was going to take a vacation from my job to take care of him, but I do not know the current status of his employment and/or work history. The woman he was dating locally (when he lived in the Buckhead area with me) told me that he lied to her, saying he lived with roommates, and John was obviously pursuing a relationship with her. He was also communicating with a woman in Colombia, saying he loved her, even though he always told me that he "hates" Colombian women. ??? There were other women he had various sorts of relationships with. He kept his cellphone "top secret", giving me all the more reason to be so su***ious of him. I know this man may be VERY tempting but, trust me -- HE IS BAD NEWS! He's not even worth the trouble due to all the drama he causes (raging, criticizing, blaming, atempting to lower your self-esteem, etc.) and he is absolutely no good in bed either -- just the selfish "out to get himself off" type of man. He is also sterile, which he may lie about. John has genital *** which he claims to have gotten from an ex-girlfriend (who got it from her cheating ex-husband). John often uses some form of the nickname "Baby_Diablo" on websites. e has a profile on "Adult Friend Finder" under "baby_diablo72". Here is a fairly recent photo that should make him easily recognizable. --ANONYMOUS