I've been with a guy for 3 and a half yrs. He has been married twice before. We got engaged after a year and should have got married in 2006 but ten weeks before the wedding he claimed I had changed and called it off. He has proposed a number of times since but I don't know if I would go there again! He is a perpetual liar. We have split up about 4/5 times and each time he advertises himself in the local personal columns as soon as he can. After he cancelled the wedding he appeared in print after just 4 days! Everyone wonders why I keep going back (I wonder that myself!) We recently had another set back. Again he advertised himself and I found out that he told all the women he chatted to that his last relationship ended 5 years ago!! Having got back together last week, he's now keeping it a secret from his family/firends. He had an operation yesterday but because his sister is looking after him he is not keen for me to visit. How do I enter the rat on the system!!!!

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I've never really had a bad boyfriend, just indecisive ones who break my heart by making promises they can't keep.

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Hi. What a brilliant site! Have just read about it in a magazine and here I am. Just did a search on a rat i dated for nearly a year and he isnt mentioned by anyone else. Hmm. Wish he had been. It would have saved me wasting a lot of precious time on him. Think this is a cool site and will hopefully save some women alot of heart ache.

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i found out about this website while watching the evening news today. i am going through a divorce i was with my husband for seven years...we were only married for the last two years. he fed me all of the lines that i heard the women speaking on the news cast. he had all of the manipulative characteristics and excuses as well. he has now started a relationship with another unsuspecting nice caring trusting individual. we women need to be extremely careful because men see us as vulnerable for their pickings. they pray upon what has been given to us innately by the creator...we are caregivers...nurturers...mothers...naturally loving...etc. we must also remember there is a prison population out there filled with these twisted individuals and they get released into our society everyday and their lifestyle in or out of prison is to lie manipulate and use women. many of us fall for it. it isn't because we're stupid it's because of the things that i stated above. the cold part about my situation is that my husband's 72 year old mother is part of his scam...a family affair. look out girls because you don't know how deep the wickedness really is. these people are out to take you for all you've got and leave you high and dry.

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I just wish more women would know about this site. Any time I meet a guy I come on here and run his name...see if I can find anything....not too many women in my city know about it and it would sure save alot of heart ache and stress if more people added the terrible men they were with. Leave all these assholes single and lonely. That's what they deserve!

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add me too. my ex lied about being married. the truth didnt come out until his mother in law called me, then he confessed. claimed he was seperated and was getting a divorce as soon as possible, she lived in another state. after i decided to take him back he came to visit me ( he recently moved to be closer to his sons and in turn his wife) things were good. he told me it was over with her before we met. swore up and down the papers for an offical divorce were filled. then two days after he left he just completely stopped talking to me. he didn't answer my calls, my texts, emails nothing. it was not until i called his friend that i found out that he was okay...and that was just his cowardly way of ending it! He promised me so much and delivered none of it. I gave him many things, but most of all i gave him me and my heart and he crushed it. I'll never be the same, and forever will be suspicious. that's the worst part. ive completely given up feeling like there are trully good men out there

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