Hi Girls, I'm probably out of my element here but men give you problems at ALL ages. I'm a widow, 70+, an active, with it lady living in a small town where the dating pool is empty but I was fortunate enough to meet a great guy also 70+and we had an amazing attraction. That was last January. The first three months were too wonderful to describe and we could not get enough of being together in every way but during the last 6 months I've noticed a slow drifting away. I'm always the one to make plans and more times than not he is 'busy', then finally last week he blindsided me with he was having a hard time with the moral issue of sex outside of marriage and could not see me anymore. I was devastated. In the beginning we both had stated we were not interested in marriage because who needs the hassle of his and hers finances, children, pets, homes etc. Now to be told he can not see me because of a moral thing leaves me very upset. I've told him at our age being friends would be find but he will not consider it. I think because when we are together the attraction is too great and he does not want to be 'tempted'. Should I just forget it or try to reason with him ........trouble is I love him........ Thanks for any comments.

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I have been dating a guy that was separated for two years. We have been together a little over a year now. We just purchased a home together and have looked at rings and talked about our marriage. Now all of a sudden, I have looked at cell phone records and see that he has been talking to a female on some pretty long calls. He says he hasn't done anything with the female but just talk to her. Now the female is a person that he has slept with and she is very MARRIED. I spoke with the female and she was real ugly in telling me I was nothing to him and that she did not care what we had going, she was going to stay around. He is pretty much refusing to stop talking to this female. For some outlandish reason, he doesnt think that he should have to. I have threatend to leave and even packed a bag. He says he wants me to stay. His mom has expressed to me that this female is a slut and she is not welcome in her home. His mom also told me that if I leave she does not blame me but if I decide to come back home. I better not make it so easy. She advised me to put the B**** in her place as well. I love him and there are children involved. I sit here at work, and as my lunch approaches, I am going to go home and get me some clothes. I've already called my sister and told her That I would be over.......

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I keep finding guys who have or get girlfriends and want to keep me as a side thing that nobody knows about. I think that they need time to leave them but it never really happens that way. I don't care anymore, I just get annoyed... but seriously, this kinda sucks. The ones I'm interested are taken... and yes.. I am usually interested before I know they're taken..

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Mine is the first message posted. Oh I'm not complaining just stating how this person is and how he treated me. Most of the story was glazed over not mentioning everything he did. Check the comment he left me. He sounds like his mind

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Your comment telling me to stay off the site doesn't matter as you can't throw me out of your house in Vegas. I am in my own house on my own computer writing the TRUTH. Your a big PIG as someone else called you and you got insulted. WHY its the TRUTH. Check into a hospital as you need help with all your issues the ten step program isn't enough. Maybe one day you'll add something good to society

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Do you really know someone that well. I though I knew this guy from Jersey who turned out to be a gigolo and scum bag. I knew him for 30 years and was always their for him . He invited me to llived with him in Las Vegas After two year 2006 to 2008 he then began to show signs that he is nuts. If I watched a TV program that he didn't like the next day he said I had to move back to Jersey, he is very cheap, secretive, sneaky and liar. He was on sites asking questions whether I'd be entitled to his property because we were living together. We never had any conversations or discussed anything. His sick mind was always planning how to get over on woman. All along he was married in 2001 when his wife decided to return from florida he made up some story to get rid of me and kept all my things such as old coins and valuables. As he drove me to the airport he tried to reminess some crap but I saw what he is and how he played me too. I left him a letter stating what a dirt bag he really is and how I should have expected it after all he deserted his children, dated all kinds of woman and used them. MY words to him is What goes around Comes around. He is also ripping off the system collecting disability and is on every swinger and dating site in his area Las Vegas, NV. jr claims he's easy going, likes good times watch out for that kind

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