After reading many of the stories on here, I think that a lot of women know what is best for them, but they don't want to do it, because they are afraid to be alone. You don't need a man to make you feel like a complete, whole person. I think we as women are lucky to have this thing called intuition, and I thank God that I've listened to it. My intuition told me that my man was cheating on me, so I did a little sneaking around, and you betcha, he was pursuing another woman. Stupid me at the time forgave him, went back together for a little, then I knew that I just wasn't happy. Women- you need to do what makes YOU happy-you have to be selfish and put yourself first! Make a life for yourself, don't depend on a man to do that. If he left you or cheated on you- he didn't deserve you in the first place, and you're better off without him! Theres a man out there that is going to treat you the way you want to be treated. You deserve to be in a happy loving relationship with mutual respect...and don't accept anything less than that!

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I am in love with this man that has been my best friends for several years. We grew close and when he asked me out, it was amazing. I was , and still am, head over heels for him. Us two and our mutual best friend did everything together, until I found out that this friend liked me. Hoping to save our friendships, I suggested that we (the boyfriend and I) take some time off... Now the best friend has dumped me as a friend and started talking badly about me unfairly. He is demanding and immature and I no longer am interested in being friends with him. However, I am still desperately in love with the boyfriend, who doesn't want to get back together with me. It's been awhile and I still can't get over him. I'm pretty young and I want to move on, but at the same time I feel like I might have lost my soul mate. I still cry about him alot and I'm worried about what will happen with us and this best friend, who wants to hang out with the boyfriend and not me. Anyone with advice is a huge help...... I miss him so much. Thank you

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To piggy back of 3 Things Guys Should Never Tell a Girl ( To the Average Guy) I believe in honesty to the core. Therefore, if a guy has something to tell me, he better tell me up front

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I AM VERY FAMILIAR WITH CHEATING MEN...HAD LOTS OF THEM IN MY LIFE..ALTHOUGH IT TAKES ALOT FROM YOU WHEN SOMEONE THAT YOU LOVE HURTS YOU ONE THING I HAVE LEARNED IS THAT YOU ALMOST ALWAYS LEARN FROM THE EXPERIENCE AND WALK AWAY A SMARTER PERSON...LOTS OF MEN WILL COME AND GO IN OUR LIVES LADIES BUT THE ONE THING WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE IS EACHOTHER...SO LETS STICK TOGETHER LADIES AND SHOW THESE MEN WHOS RUNNIN THANGS...LOL...

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So please tell me if I am wrong. My boyfriend of a little over a year was on facebook talking to girls. I asked to use his computer, which he gave me permission to do so and when I went to check my facebook he had not logged out of his and his page popped up. There was a runing message between him and a girl form his past. This womna is married wiht a child and she contacted him to tell him she was not into her husband anymore and wanted him ect.....Well as i read on My bf asked for some pics of her getting friendly with her "new firend" since she is no longer having sex with her man. I feel that if he is getting pictures of women naked or in sexual acts with toys or other people that is as bad a cheating. I can handle the playboy magazines but not the people he knows and has access to if he went back home. Am I wrong for feeling this way...should I look at this as he is not cheating and he did nothing wrong....HELP!!!!!PLEASE!!!!!

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I am a 37 year old now single woman. I never been maried. I have been in long term relationships. Well, I have been seeing this guy since October. I found out he was cheating. But he hide it real well.He was still sleeping with me. Well when i found textes in his phone from another woman of course I called her. She just hung up on me. Well,when i started to get nast he threaten me with PFA's. What a man! The thing I am having trouble with is letting him go. If any other man would have done what he has he would have been gone. There is just something in side me that won't let go. And I don't want to go to jail. I mean he wasn't that great in bed but that didn't matter because I loved him so much. Can anybody help him on how to get over him. It seems all I meet are losers.

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