hi, I'm new to this site. I just found out my husband has been having an affair. We've been married for 3 years. I have 2 children. He told me he fell out of love with me. I am devastated. We have been stuck in a long distance marriage due to financial reasons. I am living in a home that was already his when we met, and is 3,000 miles from where i lived previously. He came along and swept me off my feet and promised me the world and it has just turned into a big nightmare. I will stop there. I am still in shock and pain, because i just confirmed the affair on Saturday. I knew a little longer, becaue i caught him through texts and such, but was in denial until i pulled the truth out of him. i have no idea how long it has been going on, but he has been distant and mean when he comes home for several months. Before learning the truth, he was trying to blame me for the distance and lack of attention. all the while he was pushing me away with the coldness. :(

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last week was the worst ever for me :(. men are total jerks. end of story.

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I just discovered this site a few weeks ago, and let me tell u....some of these guys on here remind of a guy I was with for 4 years. Lyin, sleepin with multiple women, STD's, leeches..IDK sometimes after readin the stories I seriously contemplate on talkin to females. LOL. I just don't know who to trust anymore, because there are SOO many lowlifes in this world it's ridiculous.

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my friend started dating a guy 5 months ago, he started talking about mariage and her kids started calling him dad and she did nothing to stop them, well he was soposed to be there for christmas, never shows instead sends hid son, [see everytime this guy can't make it for the date he sends his son, ]so he was soposed to come for new years, never showed and he was in town and his hotel caught on fire and he was close to a renta car place and would not pay the 20 dollars to come and see her and give her , her new years kiss, aww yeah he was her sopposed to be here for thanksgiving, he came alright, only to hunt and go back home with all her food and drinks, this woman spends alotta time on the phone with this guy, and all he does is break her heart and put her off, and his son keeps saying ,"he's not going to marry you, 'and everything, he smooths everything over when he, sees me, and he tries to make a good empression on me, and he does everything right when he knows i'm around, and the day he went back the first time he started calling and texting me, i asked him "why"and he had no answer, ALL THEY DO IS FIGHT! and recently his son text her and said[before i found the article about this guy on here},{ that he has had another woman in his truck for three days and my dad is breaking up with you, leave us all alone, you dumb ***!}, so she called her boyfriend on it and, he's been calling her more and talking to her just like he did in sept, but i still think he's covering something up!...please comment!

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It makes me sad to learn that romance and love no longer exist, just in dreams. And only the superficial stuff remains.

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Your intuition will never fail you. Listen to it! It is there for a reason - to protect you from harm. I should know - went against it multiple times and I am just now learning my lesson. I would rather be alone and happy than together and miserable. I will not compromise any more. I deserve better and so do you!

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