Stop asking "why" ... and start saying "how" ... HOW can I improve my awareness and intuition. It is a waste of HUGE energy to try and get to the bottom of understanding what WE did wrong. I just kicked someone out of my life after having been "duped" for almost a year, but it is what it is, and I was blinded by all the bull**** as well. Now in debt like never before, I have to stop focusing on what he took, and realize that he wins if I stay focused on that negativity. I am a hell of a lot stronger than he is, and I will overcome ALL of it! He is the one who will NEVER get out of his own way, and will continue to build a life of guilt and deception, which will eventually take him down. He pays in the long run, with an inability to stand himself. DO A BACKGROUND CHECK ladies, ALWAYS. and a Credit Check too.

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I have just read message before mine and oh my god how do we do it, im 23 sound young but hell of a lot of life experience i have always been a womeniser hater and all my friends run to me and without blinking i tell them to chuck their man he aint treating u good all my ex s have wanted me back and after one bloody amazingly stupid month with this guy im heartbroken and gutted cant beleive it, would do anything for it all to turn out differant but i cant pretend it never happened, feel so stupid, please tell me how to forget him i am in a constant day dream about this guy, i have always walked away and acted like i didnt care before, n i wouldnt even show this guy he has bothered me but im totally gutted x

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I love my fiance so much, he is perfect but loves porn. I do not know what to do. It makes me feel so low =(

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Dated this guy for 10years he cheated on me with the admin at his job. They went to the beach for a weekend getaway... mind you I'm pregnant. What a great catch ladies. I want to post his picture and name but that wouldn't be very nice oh and hers too!!

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Im writing on here because i just needed a place to vent, i met this guy, we will call him PTF, in April of this year while in Las Vegas. He sweep me off my feet, he would visit me in Bermuda and I would visit him in Las Vegas. We went on a cruise, hiking in the mountians, everything. Yes the distance was hard, but then me said he wanted to marry me, Im not American so we had to fill out all these forms to have me live there once married, yes it was fast but I thought he was the one, my family loved him, my daughter loved him, I loved him. But then he came and visited me the weekend before last, as a surprise visit because he loved me, told me he wanted to move here to Bermuda instead. Then his OTHER girlfriend in Vegas contacted me and told me everythign about their relationship, he told me she was crazy. But everything she said he said was exactly the same thing he was telling me. then we caught him out on three way and that ***, broke up with me on email. Then called my mother and tried to blame me saying i have anger issues, if i had real issues I would have went to Vegas and *** his *** up, but we had one fight where i threw my purse at him, i was wrong and i apologized and that was two months ago, all was fine after that. He used me and then told lies to my friends and family to paint me as this angry women who drove him to cheat. Wow, after thinking about what he put me threw recently why am I upset, I shoul dbe happy he is out of my life, but i guess the whole starting over and all the future plans we made, that hurts. But I will survive and i will find love hopefully

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Oh girls, I feel so sorry for some of us that have put up with SUCH bullshit! ~ Irecently had an affair with a married man for the first time in my life (I'm 36). I ended it after a month because I felt like such an IDIOT. He called me 20 times a day, sent the sweetest text messages (like 50 a DAY!), and saw me every day for that whole month...fooled around, but didn't bang him (thank GOD)....Come to find out I hear through the grapevine he cheats on his wife all the time! Never in my life have I even looked at a man with even a girlfriend! I always thought to myself: I never would do it, because I NEVER want it to happen to me. I feel so sorry for his wife, who sadly, looks the other way.Smart/ Pretty girl too. I'm glad I had the balls to say, 'Sorry dude, but I can't do this'. It was so hard, because he truely is such a ladies man. But with lectures/help from my girlfriends and hearing some of their stories and reading things here, the anxiety about sneaking around and the saddness that I had has subsided significantly....Time does make it go away! Amen!

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