I felt that he was the one for me because he did everything and was always there when I needed him; however, I found out his darkest secret NOW WOMEN U KNOW when it comes to finding out what ur man do without u with him u have to become the FBI (Female Black Investigator) yes I became that woman and what I found out I didn't and wouldn't accept. What lied beneath was me questioning his sexuality. I read a text in his phone it stated 'when are u going to give me that massage we talked about this is bunsonlockdown from A4A', so me thinking it's a female but come to find out it's a DUDE. Yes ladies a male a gay gay gay gay male. And then that not the worst thing come to find out A4A means ADAM 4 ADAM a gay website where men go on to a sale there body for money. I don't know if it was for money to move us forward or for his pleasure; but I couldn't take it no more. When I found out I didn't know what to do cut his dick off or kill him. When I confronted him about it he said u not my mother/wife I don't have to explain *** to u kiss my ***. So I'm here to tell my story but don't get me wrong I'm still in love with him but I cant date a man who don't want to work but would sell his dick for easy money and put me and him at risk of getting infected. He is still married/sereprated has 3 kids. He treated me good and sometimes bad, but listen ladies I'm informing u all when u come across this man watch out *** and if u do see him watch out because he catches women with his charming NY style/thug ways however it's a cover so ladies be careful. TELL me ladies please do comment GAY or NOT GAY or BISEXUAL.

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I was dating a guy for 4 months. We where always together and I was crazy for him. One evening I phoned him to say hello when non other then his ex pickes up the phone. She obviously had no idea that I was dating him as she was too. He told me it was over between them, but when I showed up un announced at his house she was there lying on a matres infront of his t.v. I was heart broken and left him there and then. He still tells me I am the only one for him but I have moved on

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I have dated this guy for almost four years only to find out he fell out of love with me nearly two years ago but didn't have the nerve to break up with me. He cheated on me numerous times but denies it because he claimed it was just pillow talk and that its' only cheating when you actually have sex with them. I was emotionally, mentally and physically abused by him and I am determined to break the cycle. after years of dealing with ugly name calling and constant criticism I walked away. he won't leave me alone, he still calls and act as if he's in trouble and that he needed me. Once I fell for his trick he would act like we are a couple and then he said he needed it or he can't help it. the next day he would send me messages saying we are done, we can't be friends and that he does not know what he wants. every week it's seeing me and then leaving me but i never once called him it's him doing all the calling and stupid me fall for it. Today I found another lie he told and I am very determined to just move past this bad mark and make a change for the better. I finally realized my self worth and I dont have to deal with his insecurities, I hope I can stick to this determination once and for all and I hope that things will be better.

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Ihave recently started dating this wonderful guy, but I have a real problem!! He has been to my house several times and occasionally we go and hang out together, but he has never invited me to his house. He says he live alone.. But I only have his cell number and not his house number( he says he doesn't use it) and most of the time we only talk at night when I know the mother of his kids are at work. Should I trust him and believe that he doen't like with a woman or just not be so crazy and know something is wrong. He has never given me any otther reason to think he is in a relationship with his children mother.. Please help me!!!

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I've been dealing with this guy (little boy) for about 6 years now off and on. We have 2 kids together and its been nuthin but bullshit, and a waste of time. He did me so wrong when we had our first child together that i vowed to never mess with him again, but after years of dealing with b.s from other guys, and kinda still having feelings for him, i allowed him back into my life. He seemed like a totally different person from who i've know before in the beginning of our relationship the second time around, but being naive and stupid, I fell for it. He was charming, respectful, everything that i wanted, so then we had another child. BIG MISTAKE! In a way I'm kinda confused. The reason why is because even though he's moved on, i still havent its been almost a year, and im still holding on to the hope that he will come back to me, and acknowledge the messed up things that he's done. The strong part of me feels that enough is enough and it's time to let go, and make a better life for me and my kids. I'm just so stuck, and frustrated because in my heart, i cant let go, but in reality i know that i need to. it's a cycle that needs to be broken, that i know. It's just very hard. If there's anybody out there that can offer words of wisdom and inspiration, please feel free to leave a comment.

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I have really bad self esteem. My boyfriend is constantly telling me how insecure I am. I wish i knew a way to fake my security. I'm a reasonably attractive woman, i have a wonderful boyfriend that loves me and has never done anything for me to really distrust him (so i do) and i have a great job and handsome healthy son... I don't really have a reason to have low self esteem... Help!

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