well i just found out my boyfriend of 6 yrs. has 3 kids by 3 different women. He tells me the reason he came clean was b/c he was tried of hinding it. Im so pist off right now I dont know what to do. He even said he was sorry maybe after the 1st i might would have belived it but he went an had 2 more 4 yrs. later. How can he say he love me and still have 2 more kids. Just when you think you know somebody. Its scarey how you can be with somebody for so long and not really know them. I found a true dog!!!

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I just moved to Austin. I left a realationship (if you want to call it that)of 10 yrs. I had been with this man on and off i really loved him in the beginning and I felt he really loved me. Later I know he was with other women, but I never caught him. He became a good friend and good to my sons. He always remembered me at Valentines, birthdays, christmas and never forgot my sons either. That's why I cared about him so much. I moved to get over him. Had a really hard time at beginning but I'm getting better. He tells me he still loves me but never puts me first. Never asked me to stay or to marry him.......I still miss him but trying to move on. Any suggestions. I'm an old dog hard to learn new tricks. But if there are any please let me know...THANKS LADIES

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Be sure you do a backraund check even if he is a teacher or a preacher. I dated a teacher which is also a minister last year. He seems like the perfect man . He is always with hi children. The parents live hi at his school. When I started dating him he told me he has been divorced for 4 years. We were dating for a while. His children and my children became good friends. We decided to get married. We went to premarital counseling. He was drinving one of my cars. After we have been married for 1 month, I found out that he was married the entire time. He did get a divorce from the other woman but only after we got married. He also took hir wife places in my car, and lived with her the entire time. He is well respected in this city. He put on a good game.

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I've been with my boyfriend for two years and for the past year of our relationship we've been fighting constantly mostly due to his lies. Yesterday I found a bag of weed in his back pack along with my scissors which he took to cut it up with I assume. He said he'd quit smoking it a year ago but I think he's been lying for the most part. The nights when he comes home eyes all blood shut he claims it's because he's tired and work was exhausting but I always questioned it. Now I suspect he's been smoking all along. Today i found a condom in his wallet perfectly hidden away. We have unprotected sex and haven't used a condom since the first month of our relationship. And he says he doesn't like using condoms because he doesn't feel anything so when he's in a relationship he never uses condoms. I'm afraid he is cheating on me and I don't know what I may have been exposed to.

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I was dating my guy for about a year, we got engaged back in August. He was kind of a bad boy and I went through a lot with him in that year. At the end of October he cheated on me with another woman, wouldn't own up to it, broke off our relationship, and now won't give me any answers as to why or if he wants to work it out, but he still tells me he loves me and shows me affection. I'm confused and don't understand how men can do this.

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Do not date insecure guys. Even if they like you they are not worth it.This man is so insecure he is intimidated by my intelect and beauty. He broke up with me because he always thought i see other guys. He said that i am way too hot not to have other gys.

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